ANXIETY COACH & ADHD COACH · EST. 2012

Anxiety Coach
For a Healthier Relationship With Anxiety

Adam Tubero is an anxiety coach and ADHD specialist helping teens and adults understand their patterns, respond differently to anxiety, and create meaningful change through a personalized approach informed by CBT principles, exposure-based work, and holistic strategies.

  • Anxiety Coach & ADHD Coach
  • Social Anxiety Coaching
  • Executive Function Coaching
  • Confidence & Self-Esteem Coaching
  • Stress & Burnout Coaching
  • 10+ Years Experience
Adam Tubero, Anxiety and ADHD Coach

Meet Your Coach

Hey, I'm Adam. Here's why I do this work.

Most people who find me have already spent a lot of time trying to figure out their anxiety. They've read the articles, tried the apps, maybe even gone to therapy, and yet they still find themselves getting caught in the same familiar patterns: overthinking, avoiding things, or constantly trying to manage how they feel.

I became an anxiety coach because I know that experience firsthand. I've dealt with anxiety myself, and for years I treated it like something I needed to control or get rid of. What eventually changed wasn't that I stopped feeling anxious. It was how I responded to it.

I started to realize that trying to eliminate every uncomfortable thought or feeling was actually part of what kept me stuck. That realization has a lot to do with how I approach anxiety coaching today.

My work combines that lived experience with principles from CBT, exposure-based work, and holistic strategies. We'll look at how anxiety actually shows up in your life, what might be keeping those patterns going, and what you can start doing differently. The goal is to take what we understand and turn it into real changes in how you think, respond, and move through everyday life.

This isn't about never feeling anxious. It's about changing your relationship with anxiety, trusting yourself to handle difficult experiences, and learning to experience anxiety without always feeling like you have to fight it or fix it.

My Approach

How I Help

Evidence-based coaching methods, tailored to you and what you’re actually dealing with.

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Anxiety Coaching

Anxiety coaching helps you understand what's driving your anxiety, what may be keeping it going, and how to respond differently. We'll look at avoidance, overthinking, reassurance seeking, perfectionism, and what I call "the story." This is the meaning and predictions your mind creates around what's happening. Then we work on changing the habits and responses that keep you stuck. The goal isn't to eliminate anxiety, but to change your relationship with it so you can respond differently when it shows up.

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Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT helps us look at the connection between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. We'll identify thought patterns, assumptions, and behaviors that may be contributing to anxiety, low self-worth, or keeping you stuck, then work on developing more useful ways of thinking and responding. The work isn't just about changing thoughts. It's also about what you do differently in everyday life.

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Exposure-Based Coaching

Exposure-based coaching helps you change your relationship with anxiety through experience rather than avoidance or reassurance. We'll identify situations, feelings, sensations, or uncertainties that anxiety makes difficult and gradually practice approaching them differently. Between sessions, you'll put this into practice in real life so you can become more comfortable with discomfort and respond differently when anxiety shows up.

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Holistic & Lifestyle Strategies

How you feel isn't only influenced by what you think. Sleep, nutrition, exercise, stress, routines, medication, and physical health can all affect anxiety, mood, and attention. When it's relevant, we'll look at these factors alongside the psychological and behavioral work so we can better understand the bigger picture and figure out what changes actually make sense for you.

Wondering which kind of support would help most?

One free consultation is usually enough to know whether coaching is the right fit.

What My Clients Say

About My Approach

Why This Work is Different

My Philosophy

"A lot of my work is about helping you change the relationship you have with anxiety and other difficult emotions, so they have less influence over the choices you make and the way you live your life."

That means looking at what happens when difficult feelings show up. Do you avoid, overthink, look for reassurance, or try to control the situation? We'll understand why those reactions happen and work on responding differently.

You don't have to feel good all the time to be okay.

My Background

I've spent well over a decade studying psychology and human behavior, but some of the most important things I've learned came from working through these challenges myself.

I have a background in psychology and behavioral science and am an ICF Associate Certified Coach (ACC) and PAAC Master Certified ADHD Coach (MCAC), with additional training in CBT and exposure-based approaches. I've also studied how sleep, nutrition, medication, and physical health can affect how we think and feel.

That combination of education and lived experience shapes how I work.

I want you to understand yourself, but also leave with practical tools and a clear idea of what to do differently.

Understanding Yourself and Making Changes

I believe it's important to understand why you think, feel, and react the way you do. Sometimes that means looking at past experiences, relationships, fears, or beliefs that still affect you today.

I pay attention to things you may not notice yourself, like what you avoid, how you respond to anxiety, where you look for certainty or reassurance, and the habits that keep you stuck.

But understanding these things is only part of the work. We focus on what you can do differently now, while helping you get better at recognizing these things yourself.

The goal is to understand yourself better while making changes that actually improve your life.

Ready to approach things differently?

Let's talk about what's keeping you stuck and what lasting change could look like.

Good to Know

Frequently Asked Questions

About anxiety and ADHD coaching with Adam Tubero

What's the difference between coaching and therapy?

Therapy tends to focus on diagnosing and treating clinical conditions, often looking back at root causes. Coaching is forward-focused: we work on the specific thought patterns, habits, and blind spots that are holding you back right now, and build practical strategies you can use immediately. Many clients do both, coaching complements therapy rather than replacing it.

How can anxiety coaching help?

My approach to anxiety coaching is a little different. It combines the practical, forward-moving nature of coaching with evidence-based methods and deeper work often associated with therapy. We look at what's driving the anxiety, the ways you may be reinforcing it without realizing it, and what needs to change in how you respond to it. The goal isn't to eliminate anxiety, but to build a healthier relationship with it so it has less control over how you live.

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How can ADHD coaching help?

ADHD coaching can help with things like procrastination, overwhelm, organization, executive function, emotional regulation, and following through on what you know you need to do. My approach also looks at how ADHD interacts with anxiety, confidence, motivation, and everyday life.

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Who do you work with?

I work with teens, young adults, and adults dealing with anxiety, ADHD, or both, including high-achieving students, young professionals, and parents looking for support for their sons. Whether you're managing performance pressure, executive function challenges, or persistent anxious thinking, we build a plan around how you actually think and function.

What results can I expect from coaching?

Some people notice a shift in how they respond to anxious thoughts or ADHD-related friction fairly early on, less reactivity, more follow-through, and practical tools they can use in the moment. How quickly that happens varies a lot from person to person. Longer-term, the goal is to build skills and ways of responding that continue to be useful long after coaching ends.

What approaches do you use?

My coaching draws from CBT, exposure-based work, and other evidence-based approaches, along with practical strategies around things like sleep, nutrition, and lifestyle. I don't stick rigidly to one method. I use what makes sense for you and your situation, with a personalized approach that helps us understand what's getting in the way and what we can actually do about it.

What's a typical session like?

Sessions are conversational and practical, we start by checking in on what's come up since we last talked, then work through a specific thought pattern, situation, or skill using tools like cognitive restructuring or exposure-based exercises. You'll leave with something concrete to practice before our next session.

Do you offer a free consultation?

Yes. We'll spend the time talking through what you're dealing with and whether coaching is the right fit, no pressure either way. You can book a free consultation directly through the button on this page.

Have questions? Let's talk.

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Coaching

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